Friday, May 10, 2013

"Successful Future"

Rah's Point of View
"Successful Future"

How do you want your future to be?

For me I don't know and I don't have any idea and what I do know are the thing that I don't want to happened. I usually know are the thing that I like and dislike about the present. And when I think about it I also realized the thing happened in the past. Like how I failed and succeed in any problem (love,studies,family and even work). And things about the future? hmm. Just what I said I don't have any idea of it. Because every time I think about it, It's always changing.

But how do we get a successful future? About this question the thing I want to discuss is about the Comfort zone and how to get out of it and go to the courage zone.

But first, give me a time to discuss what is the comfort zone is. Comfort zone is a mental behaviour of a person where he don't want to sacrifice or take a risk on everything what he do. Person who is on the comfort zone is always saying "I can't do that","Why I need to do that thing", "I will do that later" or "why should I?". This statements are thing they always saying. Other than that your Habits, your routine, your skills, your knowledge, your attitudes and your behaviour are part of your comfort zone.

Now, how to get out of your comfort zone? We can answer this by going to the learning zone. Learning zone is the zone outside the comfort zone where we expand what we have and your world view. Like learning new knowledge, new skills, developing our attitude and behaviour and modying new habits.
Also in this zone this is the place where we observed, expirement, compare, learn and enjoy. Those people who get in this zone are people who are passionate to learn about new things. But somehow some people scared on doing this thing and they are comming back to there comfort zone.

Now we back to the comfort zone let us take another one step outside. Beyond the learning zone there is another place called the panic zone. Panic zone sometimes called the no experience zone.Those who do not want to move on this zone are those people who do not want to leave there comfort zone and those who didn't succeed.Those people who don't want to leave there comfort zone will say that if they go to this zone serious thing will happen. And also someone will say that what happened if something goes wrong or "it is terrible to do that".

But those who have courage and go out of there comfort zone and jump over the panic zone will get to the another step of the ladder. This is the Magic zone or somewhat we call the Courage zone. People who take the risk and have an initiative to learn are those who always succeed. People who jump over the panic zone are just like a person who dive from an airplane risking his life for a life experience. Or a person who can't speak english fluently who try to go abroad and work learning by experience.

People who have courage to take a risk and sacrifice are those people who really succeed in the future. But risking without a knowledge from the learning zone can't do anything. So we need to go to the learning zone before jumping to the panic and courage zone.

Succeeding on life is a development not a change. Don't afraid to loss what you have now because it not actually losing what we have in the comfort zone, we are only expanding what we have.

Now I will ask you again How do you want your future to be?

Take a risk (on diving in an airplane ^_^)? or just be neutral on your comfort zone?

Ask yourself and think about it!.